Thinkers vs Feelers

The Emotions of the “T” and “F” Temperaments Can Conflict Seriously

Emotions conflict often, and emotions cause and escalate a conflict.  So where do we begin the process of sorting out this serious relationship factor?  Let’s begin with how emotions play a part in decision making. Emotions Conflict Between “Thinkers” and “Feelers” We use the terms “thinkers” and “feelers” (T or

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The Five Senses

Sensing or Intuiting – Which Energy Center Is Yours?

There are two different ways of gathering information from the world around us.  We gather information either by sensing or intuiting the world around us.  These two ways that we become informed about our world create the “great divide” in the four temperaments: two temperaments are Ss and two are Ns.

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SJ lifestyle woman scurrying with coffee

Decision-Making Doesn’t Wait for the “J” Lifestyle

What Is Dominant in the “J” Lifestyle? Dominant in the lifestyle of the “J” temperament types is the feeling of urgency.  Let’s get it done now!  There is a fear of not getting things done and having the unfinished tasks back up, producing anxiety.  The need to achieve feeds this

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Introvert vs Extrovert

Identifying the Temperaments of Others – A Big First Step in Understanding

Let’s take a step-by-step approach with a big first step in learning: identifying the temperaments of others.  I hope you will find it interesting, helpful and, perhaps, even develop it into a bit of a game with your spouse or friends.    Identifying the Temperaments of Others: Introversion versus Extroversion

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Self-understanding

Self-Understanding Step 1: How Are We Designed?

Self-understanding requires a few basic steps.  The first and most crucial is to consider our design Are people different from each other?  Of course.    Your partner or child is different from you.  Ever noticed that?  Self-understanding begins when you realize that each of us is different from others.  Have you

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