I'm a Keeper - Living by Design

Podcast Episode #3: “I’m a Keeper – Living by Design”

Let’s give some attention today to parent-child bonding. We’ve already discussed some points that are critical to parenting success.  Parent-child bonding would be at the top of the list.  Let’s review: We must understand each other in order to have successful relationships. Bonding cannot be achieved by the parent.  The

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I'm a Keeper - Living by Design

Podcast Episode #2: “I’m a Keeper – Living by Design”

What is your child’s temperament? Remember!  Understanding is the key to parenting!  And understanding has been very much under-rated!  So is there a temperament “key”? The Temperament Key is YOUR Key! If you have not completed the InnerKinetics Child Temperament Key, please be sure to click on the link to

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I'm a Keeper - Living by Design

An Introduction to “I’m a Keeper – Living by Design”

Welcome to the new podcast, “I’m a Keeper — Living by Design.” In this first episode, Dr. Ray W. Lincoln lays the foundation for what will become an ongoing monthly conversation with you, the listener. In the first series, we’ll focus on parenting and how to truly understand your child

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Your life direction

In which direction are you building your life?

We’re all in constant motion. That’s true regardless of which aspect of the human system you’re considering. Even if it feels we’re stuck in a relationship, a job, or the consequences of poor choices, we’re still moving. And more importantly, we can move toward solutions and positive change. So, I

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Personality vs Tmeperament

Your Personality versus Temperament – What’s the Difference?

Have you noticed just how many different personality tests are available now?  It’s easy to lose count. When trying to understand yourself better, how in the world can you decide which test results can actually give you reliable and helpful information? What’s more, is there a difference between personality versus

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Thinkers vs Feelers

The Emotions of the “T” and “F” Temperaments Can Conflict Seriously

Emotions conflict often, and emotions cause and escalate a conflict.  So where do we begin the process of sorting out this serious relationship factor?  Let’s begin with how emotions play a part in decision making. Emotions Conflict Between “Thinkers” and “Feelers” We use the terms “thinkers” and “feelers” (T or

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The Five Senses

Sensing or Intuiting – Which Energy Center Is Yours?

There are two different ways of gathering information from the world around us.  We gather information either by sensing or intuiting the world around us.  These two ways that we become informed about our world create the “great divide” in the four temperaments: two temperaments are Ss and two are Ns.

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SJ lifestyle woman scurrying with coffee

Decision-Making Doesn’t Wait for the “J” Lifestyle

What Is Dominant in the “J” Lifestyle? Dominant in the lifestyle of the “J” temperament types is the feeling of urgency.  Let’s get it done now!  There is a fear of not getting things done and having the unfinished tasks back up, producing anxiety.  The need to achieve feeds this

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Introvert vs Extrovert

Identifying the Temperaments of Others – A Big First Step in Understanding

Let’s take a step-by-step approach with a big first step in learning: identifying the temperaments of others.  I hope you will find it interesting, helpful and, perhaps, even develop it into a bit of a game with your partner or friends.    Identifying the Temperaments of Others: Introversion versus Extroversion

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